When people ask what I do, I always get kinda stuck. “Property Management” is easy to explain on paper but the day to day craziness is impossible for many to comprehend unless you’ve been there.  I have come to the point where I just tell people I’m an ‘RA for adults’. That usually gets the point across. For the people who know me well, you know that I’m a fixer, a people pleaser, and prone to anxiety. So I always laugh when I think about my job because I love it. I’m good at it. But it tests all my sin struggles on a daily basis. When you are required to fix everything, please tenants, and manage daily crisis situations, how do you not be a fixer, a people pleaser, and get stressed out? But when I think about it, the best way to work on my flaws is by being in situations that bring those flaws out. But like… seriously? One at a time please!

I think the hardest part is the people pleasing. Because at the end of the day, I can only do my best and my best isn’t always what the tenant expects or desires. I may be killing myself at the office to make something happen for a tenant but if they don’t see a result in their own self-determined time frame, they aren’t happy. If a property manager fixes a problem when no one is around, did it ever really happen? In those moments I am reminded of Colossians 3:23, “Whatever you do work heartily as if working for the Lord not men”. I apply that every day at work. I make sure I do my best, put others before myself, and go above and beyond because I’m a Christian and I believe my work is a reflection of my love for Christ. I may fail sometimes but I know that my Heavenly Father is the person I aim to please. If I please him, I’ve done my job. Because at the end of the day, I can’t fix everything and I can’t make everyone happy. But I can do my job and I can do it well. In that I find peace.

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I’m Ali

I am a Masters Student at Bushnell University Studying Theology & Culture. My husband, Joe, is a Geophysicist, specializing in Geothermal Heath Flow. And then there is Jacob, living his best life in 2nd grade. This is our family website where you’ll find our podcast episodes, discussing all things science and theology, as well other and shenanigans. Welcome!

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